Thursday, August 22, 2013

JPC:: 4 Months




My baby turned 4 months this week.
Time is FLYING by!
He also had his 4 month checkup.
He is looking good but had to get shots.
Seriously I hate this sooo much.
My stomach was in knots all morning.
Nothing breaks my heart more than that look of "How could you let this happen?"
Thankfully the side effects weren't as bad this time around.
His legs were sore that afternoon but after a little Tylenol he was back to his energizer bunny leg kicks.
The stats:
Height: 26 inches (85th percentile)
Weight: 17 lbs 5 oz (85th percentile)
Head Circumference: 44 cm (97th percentile)

Seriously this kid's head is huge. 
I base when to move to the next size clothes when I can no longer get shirts over his head.

Sleep
We hit a rough patch with sleep this past month.
He started waking up again in the middle of the night.
I figured it was due to the fussy period for the Week 19 wonder week .
So for a couple weeks I got up to feed him in case it was a growth spurt.
However, after about a week of that he wasn't eating very much the following morning so I stopped getting up with him and just let him put himself back to sleep.
That worked like a charm and we are back to 11-12 hours at night.

We also dropped a nap this month.
I knew it was time because his last nap was so short and was starting at like 5:30 which meant his bed time was getting pushed to 8 pm.
So now 3 naps a day and they are at least 1 hour long but most are 1.5-2 hours and bedtime is back around 7 pm.

We are down to just one arm being swaddle.
He usually wiggles it out but like to start with it in the swaddle.

Feeding
Since we dropped the nap and he is sleeping through the night we are averaging 5 feeds (2.5-3.5 hours apart) during the day.
We haven't started solids
Not because Jake isn't interested but because I like the convience of not having to bring food with us.
I'll probably start sometime this month though.

Playing
We have also increased his wake time to somewhere between 60-90 minutes.
It usually increases throughout the day.
He is also getting so playful.
He loves when you try to "bite" his hand.
He will laugh and pull it away from you.

I finally got him to laugh at me but he is still very selective about what he finds funny.

He makes a HUGE mess splashing in his tub.
Seriously I feel like I'm the one getting a bath.

He loves the Itsy Bitsy Spider song.
It will make him stop crying and immediately smile.
He also enjoys Pat-a-cake.

He has a lot more control of his hands and arms.
Anything within reach is in his hand and put in his mouth.

He is really starting to like being on his tummy more.
He still isn't rolling over but has gotten pretty close rocking onto his side.
He will also pull his legs underneath him but mostly moves in a circle or backwards.
He also like to bury his head until I ask "Where's Jacob?" then he'll lift his head and smile at me.
 
He loves to gurgle and is quite loud.
We've had to take him out of church a few times because he is so enthusiastic.

We also tried the exersaucer.
He seems unsure if he likes it or not.
Currently he only likes it for about 5 minutes.

This and That
We up-graded him to the convertible carseat in hopes that it would decrease his dislike for it.
It seems to have worked pretty well.
He hates being put in it but once he is in and we're driving he is fine.

He loves watching us eat and smiles every time we put something in our mouths.
He loves laying outside and watching the leaves rustle on the trees.
He has the head control to sit up but not the core strength.

Jacob, I love you so much.
You are such a joy to have around the house with me.
I love that you smile when you see me face and are filled with pleasure when I play with you.
You are so easy going and I'm blessed to be your mom!

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Four Years Ago.....

I was sealed to this handsome man for time and all eternity.
It is crazy to think I loved him with all my heart then but I loved him more and more each day since then.
These have been the best four years of my life.
It is so crazy to think of everything we've been through in just four years (and how young we look in these pictures).

In four years we have lived in two states and three (four if you count the bachelor pad) apartments.
We have moved across country.
Graduated with Bachelor's Degrees.
Ryan has graduated with a Master's Degree.
We started a "grown up" job.
We have visited 20 states and 2 countries (not including USA, 3 if you count the Paris Airport)
Seeing sights like Manhattan, the Grand Canyon, all 5 Great Lakes, Niagara Falls, Spain, and 2 oceans.
I became pregnant with our first child after over a year of praying.
We welcomed our little miracle into the world and watched our lives completely change for the better.

This year Ryan surprised me by taking the day off of work on our anniversary.
We relaxed that morning at home with delicious omelets and some yoga (Ryan is such a good sport!)
For lunch we headed down town to try out a new restaurant "Safe House."
This restaurant was so cool!
The outside is labeled "International Exports"
It is located right on the river and you enter from a delivery alley.
Once inside you have to know where the secret door is to get in our do something crazy like the bunny hop or chicken dance.
There are televisions inside so you can watch people try to enter.
The restaurant has tons of hidden booths and spy gear.
It felt like we were eating a museum.
 That afternoon we hung out at home playing Sequence and then we went house hunting.
It was the perfect day!

Happy Anniversary Ryan!

Monday, August 12, 2013

Uncle Mike

My brother was able to come up and visit us before he headed back to Utah for school.
It was sooo nice to have him here and we hope he'll come back soon!

The minute Mike walked into the room Jake started laughing.
He thought Uncle Mike was the funniest thing he had ever seen!

We spent a lot of time just hanging out and catching up but we did squeeze in a few adventures.

Jake and I took Mike down town for a delicious smoothie and to see the art museum and the lake.
We went to the beach too but unfortunately we picked the coldest day of the week.
Uncle Mike was brave and swam in Lake Michigan anyway.
Jake and I were perfectly content just laying on the beach!
Mike and Ryan went to an archery range one night.
Uncle Mike also took us to American Eagle so we could get some jeans with his stellar discount.
We also watched a lot of The Office, Rules of Engagement, and one terrible movie Jack the Giant Slayer.

We love you Mike, good luck at school!
Come back and visit soon!

Saturday, July 20, 2013

JPC:: 3 Months


When did my baby get so big?
I can't believe he is officially no longer a new born.
This kid continues to grow off the charts.
He is 17 lbs and 25 inches long.
We just moved up to 6-9 month clothes and will have to get a new carseat in about a month.



Jacob started sleeping through the night this week.
12 full hours!
He is still eating 6 times a day and takes 3-4 naps.
I can't believe he used to be able to sleep in this basket!
Jake also started laughing this week.
I am in love!
Although so far Dad is the only one that is funny enough for a full laugh
But Jake, I've accepted your challenge and I'll prove I'm funny!

Jake still loves baths, laying on his back, his bouncer, and the birds above his changing table.

He loves to kick and talk (favorite sound right now is gurgling).

Jake loves to suck on his hands.
He is not particular about what fingers basically any fingers close to his mouth get shoved in.
We've seen variation of index/middle, thumb, ring/middle/index (with pinky and thumb out like a hang loose sign), and the entire fist.
 
He still hates his carseat but has adjusted better to being at church.
He will usually take a 15 minute nap in my arms and will stay awake for the rest of church.
Needless to say Sunday afternoons are pretty quite around our house.


Jacob we love having you around.
Our lives have changed for the better!
You are the sweetest little boy and we are so blessed to be your parents.
Cooking with our favorite little helper!
 







 

Monday, July 8, 2013

4th of July Vacation

We got to go to Utah for the 4th of July.
Ryan was able to get work off and we couldn't wait for Ryan's siblings to meet Jacob.
Now for the 3 weeks prior to the trip Jake was having a rough time.
He refused to sleep unless he was swaddled and in his crib.
He would just scream and scream for hours.
Needless to say I was stressed!
I didn't want to be "those" people on the plane, but when he gets like that nothing calms him down.
My anxiety was through the roof.
I think I probably aged 10 years worrying about this trip.
Well Wednesday finally arrived and Jake was not napping well.
Great, we were going to start off with a tired boy.
Ryan came home from work and we quickly loaded up and started the drive to Madison (they have a direct flight to Salt Lake City there so it was worth the 1.5 hour drive)
Jake screamed for the first 20 minutes of the drive.
My nightmare had come true.
He finally wore himself out enough for a catnap in the car.
While waiting in line for security he had another melt down.
I'm really really really worried at this point.
We finally board the plane and he is a little fussy.
I feed him during take off to help his ears adjust and he calms down.
He relaxes enough to take another catnap in my arms.
CHRISTMAS MIRACLE!
After that is was pretty content for the rest of the flight which was amazing considering it was bedtime.
We landed in Salt Lake and he did great in the car on the drive to Ryan's house.
He even squeezed in another catnap.
Now the true miracle was that night he slept 8 straight hours.
I thought I'd died and gone to heaven!

THURSDAY
On Thursday (the 4th) we spent the day with Ryan's family.
That afternoon my Grandma, Aunt, Uncle and cousins from St. George were driving through so we got to spend some time with them.
Ryan played basketball with the boys while I caught up with my Aunt and Grandma and introduced them to Jake.
It was wonderful to see them.
That evening Ryan's mom had a BBQ and invited Grandma and Grandpa Calder and his Aunt and Uncle over.
It was great to see them and for Jake to meet everyone he is named after.





That night Ryan and I even got to go see fireworks thanks to our awesome family babysitters!
Oh and Jake slept 10 straight hours.
I think we need to visit Utah more often!

FRIDAY
Friday morning we headed to my family's cabin just east of Oakley.
It was so awesome to be back there and to see all my extended family of my dad's side.
We played horse shoes, ate delicious food, and enjoyed each other's company. 
Jake was a hit with Grandpa thanks to Aunt Jenna's tigger outfit!
That evening we went out with Ryan's friends from high school for dinner.
Thanks to our fantastic babysitters!
We also tried to take the Razor's up the canyon but it was pouring rain.
After getting pelted with rain for about 10 minutes we turned back.
Everyone was soaked but it was a fun adventure.

SATURDAY
We spent Saturday at the house with family.
We finally got to have a meal all together despite everyone's work schedules.
We had a 3pm lunch dinner to celebrate Ryan's birthday.
Cafe Rio and poppyseed cake.
YUM!

SUNDAY
We had a big breakfast and then packed up and headed to the airport.
It was a sad day.
We miss living so close to the Calders.

Jake was a trooper.
He slept on the way to the airport and was happy waiting for boarding just people watching.
Then the miracle of all miracles happened.
Jake slept through the entire flight!
He had a hard time driving back to Oak Creek but I sat back with him and we played.

It was such a great trip and we can't wait to visit again soon!