Friday, May 31, 2013

6 Week Check Up

Jacob had his 6 week appointment today.
He is really beefing up.

Here are the stats:
Height = 23 in (85th Percentile)
Weight = 12 lbs 7 oz (85th Percentile)
Head Circumference = 15.7 in (97th Percentile)

Jacob also had to get all his immunizations.
I hate this part.
There is nothing worse than holding him and having him look at you right after they poke him.
It is like he just lost all trust in me.
He got so worked up we had to take him for a drive to calm him down.
He was miserable all weekend!
He would just scream in pain and wasn't able to sleep.
I believe it was stomach related because he would pull his legs up to his chest.
Also, he felt better once he spit up or had a bowel movement.
I blame the oral rota-virus!
Ryan gave him a blessing and thankfully he was finally able to sleep for a 5 hour stretch that night.
I'm so not looking forward to the 4 month appointment!

Monday, May 20, 2013

One Month

My Dear Jacob,
Wow, time flies by way too fast!
I can't believe you are one month old.
You have already captured my heart (and the hearts of your dad, grandparents, aunts, and uncles).
Your dad and I are so obsessed with every little thing you do.
You have changed so much in one month.
Everyday I notice changes.




I am so blessed to be your mother.
You are the sweetest baby I know.
You rarely cry or are fussy.
I think it is because you are such a good eater.
You love to eat!
In fact we've nick named you our little Hoover.
Look at that Budda belly!

You have started to smile more consistently.
I love those smiles.
They make everything worth it!
I think the number of pictures I posted prove my point.

You have added so new noises to your vocabulary.
I think you will be cooing very soon.
When I lay you down to sleep you make the funniest sound.
Your dad and I call it your warble.
Some days nights you warble for almost half and hour!

You hate getting your diaper changed.
Taking a bath relaxes you.
You love riding in the car (as long as we don't have to stop at red lights).

You love to lay on the floor and wiggle.
You haven't gotten on a regular schedule yet but we're working on it!
You love your dad and have a hard time when he isn't home.
Sometimes I'll lay you on one of his shirts and it calms you right down.



Jacob, I love you more than you will ever know.
Happy One Month!
I look forward to many more months with you!
Love, Mom




Sunday, May 19, 2013

A Name and a Blessing

Today I was reminded of the miracle that it is to have Jake as part of our family.
Today Jacob was given a name and a blessing by his amazing father.
I felt so close to heaven as I watched Ryan give Jacob a name and blessing.
I am so grateful that Ryan is worthy of his priesthood and was able to do that for Jacob.
Jacob's blessing was so amazing.
I have been given a very special boy to raise.
I can't wait to see what his future holds!

We were blessed to have so many of our family and friends in attendance.
Ryan's parents and my dad's parents flew in from Utah.
My parents and siblings drove up from Indiana.
We also had 5 of Ryan's friends from school, his professor and the family I used to nanny for attend.
After the blessing we had everyone over to our tiny apartment for lunch.
It was great to have the chance to spend time with everyone.
Thank you to everyone who supported us in this important event.




Four generations

The amazing family I used to nanny for who drove up from Chicago






Ben wanted to show Jake his trucks before he left


Ben loved Jake

Megan loved him too but she was more dainty in her affection!

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Graduation

Today Ryan graduated from the University of Wisconsin with his Master's Degree in Mechanical Engineering.
I am so proud of all of his hard work to get to this point.
We were fortunate enough to have both sets of parents and my sibling in attendance.
Even Jake cooperated enough for us to stay the whole time (2 long hours to be exact!).
Granted we did have to take him out to the hall because it was so loud in the Kohl's Center, but he was a real trooper!
I can't believe that we made it to this point.
Our time in Madison flew by!
But now Master Calder is off to bigger adventures.
Congratulations Ryan!













Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Birth Announcement

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Monday, May 13, 2013

Jake: The First 2 Weeks

Boy!  Do those first two weeks with a new baby kick your butt!
Ryan and I both mentioned we felt like we'd been hit by a truck.
I'm pretty sure my life will be 10 years shorter now!
So, given that background I'm going to do my best to remember what happened during those weeks but honestly they are a bit foggy to me.  

1. Hospital Stay
I think the best way to summarize this is "Grand Central Station"
Seriously, why do so many people need to come in and out of a new mother's room?
There is the nurse, on call doctor, my doctor, resident doctor, medical equipment check guy, housekeeping, lab work people, and my personal favorite the newspaper person.
This wonderful person would come in at like 7 am every morning to bring us a newspaper.
I dreaded that knock!
No, I don't want a newspapaer.
I want to sleep while my baby is still sleeping.
I think I'll be okay if I don't know about the current events for the next few days.
Don't get me wrong it was nice to have a nurse on call for those first couple days being a new (slightly paranoid) parent, but I'm so glad that Jake is my only alarm clock now.
Also, please explain to me why 3 people need to come in within the hour to push on my stomach and tell me that my uterus is shrinking at the normal rate.
Isn't once enough?
Anyway I'll get off my soap box and move on.
Jake did awesome in the hospital.
I mean the first night he slept for two 4 hour stretches.
He sure knows the way to his mom's heart!

2. The First Week Home
It was sooo nice to come home.
It just felt so much more relaxing.
My mom arrived about 10 minutes after we got home from the hospital.
It was so nice to have her here.
My mom and Ryan were saints that first week.
They took turns sleeping with Jake in the front room so that I could have some grunt free sleep.
Newborns are incredibly noisy sleepers!
My mom was awesome.
She cooked, cleaned and even let Ryan and I get out for a couple short outings to help us feel human again.
Jake was back to his birth weight at his appointment the day after leaving the hospital.
What can I say that boy loves to eat!



3. Elder Anderson's Homecoming
After the first week my mom headed back to Indiana.
We decided to go with her and surprise the rest of the family.
That way we could be there for my brother's homecoming and for my dad's birthday (I think we brought him the best present, but I'm biased!)
Jake was such a trooper and slept the whole way except for a couple stops to eat.
It was the first time we got to see Mike in person since he left on his mission and it was awesome!
He gave a great talk and Jenna did an amazing job with her musical number in Sacrament meeting.
We could all tell how much he had grown on his mission.
I wish I could have spent more time with the family during that trip but between feeding Jake and taking naps I didn't have much time left for socializing.
Hopefully the next time we get together I won't be such a zombie!

4. Week 2
Week 2 was tough!
It was nice to be home and back in our routine but we were still exhausted.
Plus, Ryan had to prepare for his defense that Thursday.
On top of that I think Jake had a growth spurt.
He was fussy, difficult to get to sleep, and wanted to eat all the time.
I was seriously starting to wonder what happened to my angel baby.
Thankfully that phase didn't last!
At his two week appointment he had gained another pound (8 lbs. 15 oz.) and grown an inch (21 inches).
He is in the 68-83 percentile in all categories and is a really proportional baby.
As Ryan and I say we have a Hoover eater on our hands! 
I can't believe how fast he is growing.
I just want him to stay little forever!




So we survived the first 2 weeks. 
I've been told those are the toughest so hopefully it will be all down hill from here.
If not I'll probably die an early death from the stress of it all!